RELATIONSHIPS IN DEALING WITH THE MANDELA MATRIX AND PEOPLE

Dealing with Relationships

You love someone or is in love with someone and then you wake up to the
Mandela effect and tell them about it, they have that blank stare and then
they get the download and suddenly a shift happens which defaults them
into a changed personality. Now the arguments start and a plethora of
initiated events arise which can mess your entire life up by testing the
integrity of your mind and love. What do you do when the person you love is
not the person you knew prior to the Mandela effect?

When you notice changes, then let the matrix know from your mind that you
notice the change. Take notes but keep them to yourself, and only speak
about the changes to others who you know for sure are already affected and
like-minded. When it comes to people you don’t know or someone you love
dearly, then you must approach this equation cleverly and then leave it
alone. For example, you can tell them how something is now, but then
providing them knowledge of how it used to be or how it was changed. Don’t
make a big deal out of it, just mention that it wasn’t like it was prior to the
event. Make your statement and move on with no more mentions about it.
“The key here is to tell them and not to ask them.”

Never ask the matrix anything because asking is “you” giving validation
“submissive” to the changes. Instead, you must tell the matrix what it has
done, and go on with your life with no amusement, or strong emotional
interactions to the deception which has been placed over your life since the
day you were born. “This is very important.” If you validate the changes to a
person who is not aware, then the matrix will cause that person to reject
you. It will give them an alpha mindset over you and you may not notice the
subtle ways of this often-unpredictable assault on your memory and
personal experience.  You may find yourself constantly going to them with
changes and that person may not validate you, but will end up pulling you
into a submissive mindset by keeping you under the power of those
changes. This means that they will keep you continually changing your
thought process in accordance to the surface value. You will fall victim
“submissive” of the changes.

Tell the person about it and don’t argue or even ask them how they feel
about the subject. Just provide the data and move on. Remember that it’s
impossible to not know something once you find out the facts. The
advantage is in your favor when you just simply make your jester and walk
away. Your job is done and this is a way to keep your emotions and feelings
out of the “effect.” You will no longer become the object of the conversation
but rather the initiator with no bias.

The common mistake so many Mandela effected make is that they try and
get others to see, and it only gets worst especially towards the one you are
trying to bring your point across, but they are not willing to see because of
you acting in a sporadic excited way which provides the other person
validation. You will be reacting with a beta mindset which is submissive to
the initiating opponents’ actions. This will force the matrix to lead you into
seeking it for validation instead of the other way around. This can bring you
into a “loop matrix” which is a forced complex that refuses to display to you
the true nature of how things are, and thus you are at a “stalemate” leaving
you blinded by only providing you one dimension of how things are. This is
often the case of those who only see word and name changes but never
witness anything more than those items.

The answer is to notice the change, but ignore the person or event who may
not be aware of the change. Never argue because when you argue, then you
are not in the alpha by reacting and becoming the beta mind. The alpha is
the logical valuable one and the beta is the passionate irrational one; one
leads and the other “always” follow. Your love one has power over you and
you have no idea that they’re manipulating you. The fact is that this is very
strong evidence that the love one you are trying to convince has never
loved you, but only mimic and reflect your love by providing you just enough
to keep you in a needy submissive state. How do you know if you are in a
needy mindset? When you constantly seek them to validate the changes and
you go to them with the change is the evidence.

Watch your actions and keep your emotions in check, because it will make
you look and appear a complete chaotic idiot. If you constantly go to them
with the changes then they will soon despise you and later completely
disrespect you. They will do things on purpose to see if that particular
matrix still has power over you. Remember that the matrix will use people as
Sims or NPC’s “Non player characters” in order to provide the matrix data
that you are still stuck on one level of the Mandela effect. It will send only
just enough effect to keep you in a submissive mindset. You should be the
one sending the effects to the matrix and not the other way.

When things “flip” reverse on you can cause extreme heartbreak and
depression. The matrix is seeking to control you even when you are
completely aware of the effect. This is when you are being “Bamboozled.”
You have to learn to let go and not care anymore. Be careful because the
matrix is very tricky. That person will come to you and make statements
regarding past things you have told them, or mention changes that you
haven’t seen yet just to keep you going by remaining “plugged in.” Their
objective is to get you over excited and start talking about the effects and
changes. This is a form of keeping you in “awe” of the illusions. It is a form
of hypnosis which proves to be very effect in the marketing business.

Face the Signs of the Times

There may be little or extreme hints in your everyday life which will manifest
on various levels that you are not supposed to be in that relationship. Many
Mandela effected people already know from birth that they are in the
“wrong” family. They don’t feel welcomed and they feel very alone. It is hard
to admit that most people we choose are not the right person for us. It’s not
until there are several signs that the relationship is not right before we
finally come to the conclusion to get out.  The matrix may go as far as cause
you to have extreme bad health and physical pain.


No doctor may be able to figure out your condition and you will have no idea
what is going on until one day you see that the person you deal with is the
very reason why badness inflicts you. Everyone that has gone through this
already know that this is not only a fact but that it is an absolute.

Your entire life will display tiny hints of how things are and how they should
be, but often those same events are things which are ignored. Those small
“tokens” often result in adverse life scarring consequences. The point is to
take heed to the “tell-tell” signs. That word tell-tell is a double negative
word joined together. Double positive and negative words is something
everyone should pay attention to. Those types of words are signs that
nefarious things have taken place.  Here’s another example: 11:11 which
means “warning, something is out of place and to take heed and be cautious
because a danger or inappropriate relationship is immediately present.”
Many Mandela effected are guilty of “Sheeple” mentality by repeating what
others have stated about the Mandela effect. Everyone who has repeatedly
seen the 11:11 will affirm that several immediate warnings took and is
taking place in their life. The Mandela effect is universal, but often operates
on a very personal level. The effect will provide you a sort of “six sense”
where you will see signs, but it is up to your immediate response and
thought process which will be the determining factor of how your everyday
situations play out. Pay attention and learn that you can know if the person
loves or despises you by their repetitive actions. It’s initially up to you to
stop believing the lie and to own up that you are living in a fairy tale “lovey-
dovey” relationship which don’t exist in that particular matrix.

Never Argue or Ask Them How They Feel about the Mandela Effect

If you separate yourself by not arguing or even trying to drive your point
across, then you will begin to remember and see key points in your life
where that loved one never really loved you and did tiny or grand-scale
disrespectful things to test your love. Why your love? Because this is what
all the fuss is about. Love is the only thing which is true and everything else
is the lie. This is the reason that you must separate. Remember that if you
are stuck in the relationship or born into this relationship, then you must
play your role until that matrix release you from that deception program.
Note that the matrix will always release you when you command it from the
alpha mindset. You have to realize that you are the greater of the other, and
that they must follow your command and it should never be the other way
around.

For example: I have clients who are minors who run their homes, pays the
bills and do everything because both parents or all family members are in
the “beta” mindset. They are not responsible thus; the child initiates an
adult mindset and facilitate grownup behavior. I have seen children who
handle all the finances and food of their irresponsible parents who may be
on drugs or simply immature. There always have to be a leader and a
follower in dealing with the Mandela human experience in relation to loved
ones immediate or distant family.  When you come to grips of the situation
with the right attitude and mindset, then you will always be provided a
better way. That better way will be easy to obtain. If you are in the wrong
pattern or mindset, then that way out will be extreme and difficult. Never
forget this because everything that is good and meant to be will be very
easy to get even if it often requires for you to have focus on your purpose.
What is your purpose? Your purpose is to be focused on what makes “you”
happy. Why? Because you exemplify truth and anything less than that is bad
or wrong. If your focus is to please them rather than being pleased of that
which makes you happy, then you will continue to reap the results of that
particular matrix.
Remember the “others” are exceptionally selfish in all their behavior and
they are takers. A way to see this sign is that they take way more then they
give in any given situation.

Mandela effected persons are very affectionate and sexually driven, but the
others will not give you this validation in order to keep you in a submissive
“beta” mindset.  For example: She or he withholds interaction sexually or
socially as a weapon to manipulate you into submissive behavior. Many will
not even know that they are like this, it will happen subconsciously.  You
will think that you are just being nice and kind when in fact the other person
is being unkind and degenerate towards you. If you are in the right mindset,
then you will not be seeking validation of the changes from anyone, but
rather you will know that you are the one with the “gift” and those who are
true will naturally follow you. The others may possibly respect you, but you
two will most likely no longer interact in a loving relationship.
Communication will dwindle, and it may come to a point that you are no
longer friends. Why? Because you were never friends since the beginning of
time for the reason that one held on to the truth and the other the lie; This is
called “tough love.”

Righteous love remembers and holds on to past times and it is the only truth
that cannot change or be changed. This is why you remember how things
once where but have somehow changed. Love notices the changes because
it is truth and everything else that is not true will constantly change
including your loved one. The reason they become your enemy is that they
never loved you in the first place and it’s literally impossible for them to love
because they are a part of the lie. You say “not true they show and display
love” no its “your” love which has carried them this far into your
relationship. They, like a parasite have been living off of your love. You are
the valued one and when they take control of you, then they will disrespect
you in various ways. All true Mandela effected persons are full of “righteous”
love seasoned with “unconditional” love. When these two are combined
“intelligent love” will logically remain when all else fails.

Being smarter is just better than feelings, especially those of mixed
emotions. Everyone else house only conditional love or care, but they can
be changed because their love is circumstantial to a dynamic illogical
moment, and those results usually cause a false memory. False memories
can never be loyal to any truth.

What if you are stuck and cannot get out of your situation? The main reason
you are in this situation is because you have not faced the truth about
yourself, which entails that you have been loving blindly without regarding
all the messages that has been coming to you in small stages throughout
your entire life. When you know that you cannot love this person with that
strong passionate love that you are used to, and that you now treat them as
if they are a stranger in your home, only then will you “awake.”  It is at that
instant of you truly loving yourself that the matrix will absolutely “always”
provide you a way out of the situation. This is often very hard to face
because it could mean that your entire immediate family has been a lie. It
doesn’t mean that you just up and leave, but that you must face yourself,
and that you have believed in something which has been false since the
beginning.  It may seem painful due to human emotion and your fear of
losing someone which is exactly how the matrix entraps you by playing on
your fear. Be fearless not fearful, and be fearless not merciless but never
neglect the truth. Facing one’s self is an extraordinary strength to exhibit.

The Matrix Will Force Circumstances to Come and Assist You to Make That
Next Step

When you face yourself that you have believed in the lie and blindly
accepted the Bad matrix, then it will make it easy for you without your
forced efforts to assist. You become the initiator and not the victim. For
example: You may notice effects, but say nothing and your wife leave you
with the children. This is very harsh and will hurt you tremendously. Later on
in life, your children may come around or never, but rest assure that you will
be happier and free from those persons who never were holders of truth.
You will find out that you will reach better heights in success in life because
the lie is what held you down. It may be meant for you to be single and as a
result, you may reach and change more lives for the better. You may become
an author of a book and thus save more families then you ever could. What’s
going to take place is that you will focus on what makes you happy rather
than someone else’s happiness. Remember that all of those who hold to
truth are full of intelligent love and are extremely unselfish. It is impossible
to love another if you don’t love yourself first. This is the law of true freedom
and happiness.

If you are unable to get out of the relationship, then realize that you are in
that situation because something is not true about you. Stay but be aware
of the False matrix. Never argue with family members or children or loved
ones. Command the matrix with authority and sit back and you will notice
that if your family is true, that they will see and change and follow your lead.
Don’t be weak, be strong because you will be more fulfilled in life in your
immediate future. Don’t be surprised if the “others” come around seeking
your validation and even following you, because in all reality, they are lost
and can only be led by your prime example. You must be aware that the
Mandela effect is a matrix which is geared to separate truth from lies. It is
there to expose the variations of illusions. Telling them that you are
unhappy will only cause more harm and it’s also validation that you are not
in control.

The matrix may have been messing with your love since you were born.
Realize that you are the good one and the right one and the reason everyone
in your family is successful and that they are privileged to have you in their
life and that it’s not the other way around. You are to give them the
opportunity to change, but always keep in mind that you can’t change them,
all you are to do is provide them the data and what you do best by being the
genuine you.

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